Month: March 2018

Propose To A Ukrainian Woman

What is the proper way to make a marriage proposal to a Ukrainian girl? In Ukraine is it custom to be engaged to a woman first? Should you write it down first? Does anyone know how to write a proposal to marry a Ukrainian woman?

Beautiful Young Woman

In my time in Ukraine I have proposed a lot of things to women in the eight years I have been dating here. I have proposed to marry two times. I have witnessed a few not so glamorous proposals in Ukraine and some very emotional ones. The first one that comes to mind is when I was in Lviv, a city in the western part of the country. I was coming home from the gym but I wanted to get some cardio in. I decided to walk up the steps of the High Castle The High Castle Hill, 413 m (1355 feet) above sea level, is the best vantage point for a panoramic view of Lviv. The base of the steel flag mast in the center of the viewing area shows the cardinal points to help in orientation. This is one of the highest spots of the low range of hills stretching through Lviv and across the border into Poland. Read More

When I came to the first steps of High Castle there was an odd young man walking in front of me. He had something in his jacket, he would walk up a few steps then back down.

I was a little nervous about what he was going to do, so I stayed back a bit from him. What usually take 15 to 20 minutes to walk up took me almost 45 minutes. When we were about to the top he came running down towards me. I noticed in his jacket there were some flowers. Now I was starting to understand what was going on, I walked as fast as I could to the top. When I arrived there were two men and a young woman on top. The young man came up so fast got on his knee in front of the girl. He asked her if she would marry him, a long pause occurred. Finally, she said yes they hugged and kiss everything was good. Very romantic some would think.

I was with a client, Mark that met a woman with my help, they knew one another for 6 days. He came to me this morning to ask me what do I think about him asking Evgenia to marry him?

Evgenia

Being a little apprehensive I ask are you sure this is what you both want? I knew this man he was not a guy that did something without thinking about it. I said let’s go to lunch the three of us so I can feel out how she is thinking about you. I knew they would make a good couple, I saw how they would be with each other very loving. Mark treated her with much respect, I could see the feelings he had for her were real. But was this too soon? I have heard of other men proposing to a Ukrainian woman only to be turned down because it was too soon.

As we ate lunch I asked Evgenia what her plans were in life? She said I have no plans I only hope to go where my heart is happy.

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Odessa Date Sexy Girls Here!

Odessa is a great city by the Black sea! Some of the most amazing sexy women in the world there. The girls do not have much on when they go to the beach. It is a great place to party, but also a great place to find your future wife.

Tati

I have been to Odessa quite a few times the first time was in the early spring, it was very cold at this time. I date two women on this trip Anya and Victoria. Anya was an image stylest she would help men and women dress in style. She was 38 years old have been divorced for 4 years. We would go from restaurant to restaurant and try different cuisines. With her, I was introduced to Georgian food one of my favorites now. There is a Georgian place in Kiev Mama Manana,  I have to go to as soon as I get settled. In Odessa, the place we went to was great a little cottage. I had my first shashlik there it is grilled pork with a plum sauce amazing.

One morning Anya comes by wants to go to the black sea! I have always wanted to see this famous sea. From in the USSR days when it was so secretive because this is where Russia had its nuclear sub base.

Now they have tours down into the tunnels where the subs were kept underground. But it is under Russian rule now Crimea. The day we were at the seaside it was so cold we could only be there for a few minutes. It was great for me to finally see this place. Anya was a little apprehensive about us dating because of her ex-left one morning. She woke up saw a letter that read sorry I am leaving I cannot

Elena

be with you any longer. We decided to date as only friends this seemed to make her more at ease. The afternoon I was going to leave Anya I almost missed my plane. She was very sad I was a little confused, she told me she would miss me. I said why we are just two friends, we can write anytime. She said I have strong feelings for you now, Rod! Our relationship did not last long.

The next time I went to Odessa I did not see Anya, but I met a woman. Elena, she was from Donetsk we decided to meet in Odessa because I could not go to Donetsk.

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Ukrainian Woman She Is Real?

Julia Scam Photo

If you meet a girl through online dating how do you know she is real? Most Ukrainian women I know are honest have good morals. So why so many online scams? Meet your future bride online who is behind the photo?

I can tell you 90% of the time it is someone being paid to write you back. If I brought you to Ukraine to introduce you to a sexy girl then tell you it is a 90% chance this girl is a scam? Would you want to date her? No, we are much smarter than that so we think. So why do we believe these online dating sites? OK, they do serve a purpose I have always said, for lonely men that have no desire to come to Ukraine. They are great entertainment. I know I use to use them and be fooled all the time by pretty girls photos.

This is an email I received a few days ago. By a guy looking for a new love in Ukraine. Only to be scammed like so many, you might think he is not so smart. But he is thinking with his heart, not his mind.

titled: Your wisdom is needed.

Rod:

I would appreciate the opinion of someone who is so familiar with Ukrainian women. I am seeking a wife from Ukraine for the second time. When I did this the first time 22 years ago I was in my mid-thirties. Back then I used a magazine I found online called Scanna and wrote mailed letters. I went to Ukraine three times and eventually married Nataliya, a girl raised in a small town and who lived in Eastern Ukraine when we married. It was much simpler then!

After 20 years of marriage, we are separated and getting a divorce. I really appreciated some of the qualities of my ex, so once again I am looking for a woman from Ukraine. I tried several dating sites, and as you know most are just expensive scams. The best one I could find is a site called Go Date Now. Compared to the others it was the cheapest with a wide selection of women. Initially, I was only looking for women over 45, and I communicated with three of them for quite some time. During this time I was getting over 50 letters a day from women mostly in their early 20’s, I would briefly read the letters and dismiss them because of references to sex and the woman’s age, I just took these women as not being serious or working for the site.

However, one letter I got didn’t refer to sex or other sensationalism, just a very pleasant letter from a 31-year-old woman telling me about the difficulties of being a single mother of two young girls in Kiev. Initially, my intention was to help her with her very bad profile that said she didn’t want any “cowards” in her life. However, I have ended up communicating with this woman for over eight months now and we have exchanged a few hundred messages. She sends me five messages a day sometimes. We have video chatted twice, and I know she is the girl in the profile. Over the last eight months, I have become very infatuated with her, but I have also had concerns over the age difference of 25 years. Read More

Good Bad And Ugly Ukraine

 Is Ukraine safe right now in 2018? The Ukrainian women are good for relationships? The Ukraine girls are the best to date? Is it good to live in Ukraine?

Olga

I have been telling people for years all these questions above are true, Ukraine is a very nice place to live. There is a big feeling of community awareness, people come together every day in Ukraine. Go to a park or walk along the waterfront, you will see many people enjoying the outdoors. In the summer in certain cities, you will see some of the sexiest women in short skirts or short shorts.

I always feel welcome when I am in Ukraine. My first few visits I was not sure how the people would feel towards me.

I did not talk much to many people. When I came to understand they do like American men very much it was easy to become friends with many people in Ukraine. I can help you navigate through all the customs the things to do and not to do when dating a woman. One mistake many Western men make on the first date is flowers. It is OK to give flowers to a woman but not yellow roses, also in odd numbers. It is bad luck to give a woman 12 roses, which is the norm in America.

Many different sites will tell you many different ways to date a Ukrainian woman. There is no one way to date any woman.

But we all know when we meet someone that is kind has good manners we like them. Here is the problem with most men in Ukraine, what now? I met a woman how do I go about dating her? One thing I can tell you that will make her feel very uncomfortable is some man being loud. You know the guy I am talking about, the one that loves attention speaks loud so everyone can hear him. This is a big problem in this country. I saw this the first time in Vinnitsa. There were some German men drinking and being loud. They would be fine in most countries, for just having fun. They were asked by a few different men to keep it down or leave, they left.

Here is an article was written by a man that lives in Ukraine and the good and bad he feels this country has.

Bad Girl In A Good Way

THE GOOD, THE BAD, AND THE UGLY OF LIVING IN UKRAINE

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Why Hire A Personal Date Guide

Why would you want to hire a personal date guide for Ukraine dating? Why not join a free online dating site? Is there a big difference in Ukrainian women dating? Why not take a day tour instead?

Anna

I have been asked these questions a few times by men that have no Idea the differences between the western world and Eastern Europe. If you are a serious man with intentions to travel to Ukraine to find love, either go at it alone or hire me. Most online dating sites are not interested to help men date real women. Even the women on their site are not real.

I am so curious why would a man spend thousands of dollars to chat with a girl online. You are going through a third party that makes millions off stupid men.

How do I know this? I was one of those stupid men. I do not want to think about how much money I spent looking for a Ukrainian woman online. But I can tell you it was over $4000 in a 3-year period. I got nothing from these sites except for more money out of my pocket, when I traveled to Ukraine alone. If you come with me to Ukraine as your personal guide I can promise you will meet real Ukrainian women or girls.

Many ask me about the cost of my services some ask why so much? The men that have been to Ukraine to find love but only were scammed by greedy dating agencies, ask why are you so cheap?

A few men I have met told me they spent over $10,000 looking for a wife in Ukraine. I always argue why would you want to prearrange a date with a woman in a foreign country? I have been to many countries, not once did I think to look for a woman to date online. I have been to Belgium, Netherland, Germany, and other European countries. I have date women from a few countries none were prearranged! So why do it this way in Ukraine? Because the dating companies want you to so they can make money off lonely men. Writing paid women and men to pretend to be interested in you. So you will send more letters, to chat more and buy more credits.

If the online dating agencies were really trying to help men and women meet from around the world. Why no guarantees?

I will guarantee you will meet real Ukrainian women in Ukraine. Here is what they should do if they were honest to give you half of your money back if the girl you are chatting with does not meet you in person. Why would they never do this Read More

Right Way To Date Ukrainian Woman

 I want to tell you about the proper or correct way to date a Ukrainian woman. Dating advice for dating Ukraine women. Now once you find her, there are a few things you should and should not do.

Alex

First, compliment her but make it real when you see her if there is something you like about her tell her. Like your eyes are very pretty, or the color of her lipstick is nice. Don’t tell her she looks hot or sexy, make it real, Women know when you are lying.  You have no idea how many Ukraine women tell me their ex never complimented her. Another thing, even women up to around 35 years old like to be called girls, not women.

I know Americans almost always pay for a women’s dinner but not Ukrainian men.

You will always get a smile and a thank you for doing this. They do appreciate being taken care of by their man. Also, tell her a story of you being brave even if you might think it is small what you did tell it. Ukraine women love a brave man and a confident man.Be confident I do not mean puff out your chest but be a man. Take her to a nice place it does not have to be expensive.If she asks you where you want to sit do not say anywhere is fine. Take control let’s sit by the window, or maybe they have a floor upstairs. By the way, most cafe or restaurants in Ukraine have an upstairs in Ukraine.

Do not order alcohol never, never! Until you know one another if you like it that is. A glass of wine or a beer is fine. Beer or wine is not considered alcohol!

So Sexy

They like to be treated like a lady open the door for them help them be seated. Also, this may sound a little weird, but many of the Women I have dated take the sugar packets from the cafes. Not all of them but some will, please do not offend them either help or ignore it. You see, to some women sugar is an expense they can’t afford. They tell me they like to have coffee in the morning but can’t afford sugar.

Now the date is over it is getting late and always tell her I will get you a taxi especially on the first few dates.

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Cost To Marry A Ukrainian Woman

What would it cost to bring a Ukrainian woman to America to marry her? Is it better to bring a Young Ukrainian girl to marry? Do The Ukraine men care if you marry their women? How long does it take to get a fiance visa for these women?

Sexy NataliI do have many answers to these questions. First how much would it cost to bring a Ukrainian woman to America? I have done this two times now in my life. The first was here for a short period of time, three weeks to be exact. She had a tourist visa so it was not much of a problem to bring her to me. It cost $1200 for the plane ticket, I also had to send her some spending money. Sometimes US customs will ask women from certain countries how much money they have on them. This is only for a tourist visa! They want to make sure you have enough money to stay for a week. I would say for the time she was here it cost me about $2500 total.

The second time that a Ukrainian woman came to stay with me was a much different story. We met in Kiev spent 10 days together it was a great time for both of us.

We talked for two months when we both decided she would come to see me. She had a son, because of this we decided to first try a tourist visa for her it is much cheaper and a lot faster. I know many women in Ukraine that have applied for a tourist visa and were denied many times. Kristina was different she had worked in Dubai for two years because she had a child that would stay in Ukraine she was granted her visa. The cost for the visa was $300, her plane fare $1100 and $400 for travel. We spent four weeks together for a total cost of $3000!

She went back home to get her personal things in order to move to the USA permanently. We decided to leave her son with his grandmother until we were married and settled in.

Sexy Teacher To Date

The second plane ticket was $1300 because it was now in the summer more expensive to travel. She asked if she should pay extra to bring all of her clothes and things she needed. Not thinking I told her no I will get you what you need here. Read More

Ukraine Dating Agencies.

Can you trust a Ukrainian dating agency to help you meet and date a sexy girl? Would it be easy for a foreign man to go to Ukraine alone to find a wife? Is it true that the agencies are a scam with professional daters, women that are paid to date you?

Natalia Lugansk Girl

In the past, I used a few dating or marriage agencies in Ukraine. They were very expensive in the long run. The first one I used was in Lugansk, they provided me with an interpreter. These agencies are very private they will not let you see the business address, you will not get a receipt for their services. I think for 4 days it cost me $1300 for the very unprofessional service I received. Many times I would tell the woman Anastasia the girl I was dating, a part of my life. I waited for the young interpreter to translate it for me and nothing. Her mind was somewhere else.

It was a very strange experience for me, but I had no other choice at that time. Anastasia would meet me around 11 am we would be together for 10 to 12 hours every day.

We went to the same two restaurants every day, both were very expensive. When I think about it now what a fool I was! The three of us would do nothing of interest to me, every suggestion I made would be shot down. I wanted to go to the Antonov museum, where I could see the largest aircraft ever made. I was told there were several of these aircraft you could walk through. Instead, we went to the forest.

Tatyana

When they saw I was getting bored or frustrated Anastasia would make me a promise. Tomorrow we will go to the market buy some meat, and thing for a cookout by the river.

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A Ukrainian Woman’s Life

 Do Ukrainian women have a good life? Most men know they are sexy or beautiful. Do we think that is all they do is sit around and be sexy? The women of Ukraine get a bad name for being scammers. Are they all scammers?

Sexy Woman

Most of the women I know have a somewhat difficult life. If they are a single mom, they work six days a week 12 hours a day. The average monthly salary is $200 a month in most cities. How do they stay so sexy? Do they go to the gym, have a personal trainer? No, maybe only 5% can afford this lifestyle. The reason they are so fit is that they walk everywhere they go. Most do not have a car, although the public transportation is very good they do not get dropped off at home. 

 The Ukrainian women have a hard life but most do not complain. It is all they know except for TV or the movies. If anyone tells me these women are materialist I say you are crazy!

They have no money to buy anything more than food. Some women I have met can not afford sugar for their coffee. In the winter when there is not much fresh food they live on pickled products they made in the summer. They pickle everything from cucumbers of course to apples, watermelon even beets and garlic. This is another reason they are so fit, they eat very little processed food. For a single woman to have a TV is big but it will not be a flat screen. A 19-inch box old tube set they will have. Do I feel sorry for these women? Absolutely not they have a good life, money is not everything. So when an American tells me all Ukrainian women just want money, sure why not they have none. Please do not judge these women until you have been there met them.

 I found an article the other day online it was written a few years ago. It is a good read for someone interested in going to Ukraine and dating a woman.

Being a woman in Ukraine

Written By: Nataliya Rudnichenko

A poll conducted by the Ukrainian Institute of Social Studies last year showed that most of the Ukrainians polled — 61 percent of women and 51 percent of men — were of the opinion that the social status of men was higher than that of women. At the same time, 81 percent of the women were determined to champion more actively the cause of women in their struggle against social injustice and traditions favoring male dominance.

A cursory look

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Help Find My Man To Love

 Are Ukrainian women worth the trouble? Why date a Ukrainian girl, does she only want a visa? Are the women of Ukraine good women to marry? Does mail order brides still exist? Should you find a woman online or in Ukraine?

I have read all of this on the internet, I have also been asked this many times by friends client and family members. What do these women really want? I will tell you what many women have told me or should I say asked me. Rod, why can’t I find some who loves me? One of the biggest reasons I started this company for the women of Ukraine. I do not know the reason, so many single girls and women there. Some say it is because there are more females than males. There are a small percent more women than men there, so why all the single women? Some Ukrainian girls tell me a lot of Ukraine men do not work, who wants to marry a guy like that? Some say it is because of the war all the men are taken from their cities to help fight!

This is the perfect place for a man that can’t find love in their countries. We have the single women, we have the single guys so why not match them?

Because of these Ukraine online dating sites, you will not see many success stories. Whatever the reason is all I know, that I meet so many single girls in Ukraine more than any place I have traveled. It upset me when I research videos or blogs that talk about all the scamming going on in Ukraine dating sites. The comments always blame the women, the girls are not the problem. Unless they are hired by a dating agency to date men for commission or a free photo session.

90 percent of the girls that signup for these dating sites is a real woman. At the time when they signed up, they were interested in dating a foreign man.

So Cute

But they soon found out that most men that use the Ukraine dating sites are there for entertainment. To see sexy girls in tiny clothing. I have talked to some girls that used sites, most say the same thing the men are not serious. One woman told me her story about a man that promised her he would come and see her.

 Gave her the date he would be there to meet with her. She made plans to go to Kiev to see him. She said he wrote her for many months so she decided to take time off from work.

She waited in the lobby of the hotel where he told her he was staying, he did not show. She waited for five hours for a phone call, or an email from the man, which did not come. She went back home, did not heard from him again! She told me she would never use online dating agencies again. Then asked me if I had any man that would want to marry her? Read More