Are Kiev Women Strong?
Is there a difference between Kiev women and the other cities women? Are Kyiv women stronger or harder to date? Kiev women do have a few differences from other Ukraine women. Are they more difficult for dating?
One of the biggest differences is you will meet women from all over Ukraine. Women that came to Kiev for work or to escape the conflict in the east. does this make them more difficult to date? No, I think the Kiev women are more independent. The women that migrated to Kiev, are more open to change. They have already left their old lives behind, so will be more willing to move to another country. I will have to say some of these women have been hardened. Hardened from their past, but also from being alone in a big new city. These women are not nieve, some will take time to prove to them they can trust you.
Kiev is a big city, not the easiest to get around in. if you can read Ukrainian you will have no problem using the subway. If not you will have a lot of walking to do.Taking a taxi in the city center is not the best during the daytime.
I have been lost in Kiev a few times, once you learn the major landmarks you will be fine. With my company, you will not have a problem finding your way. The city can be a lot of fun once you learn the system there. There are some very nice restaurants many cafes and pubs. I will give you the basic layout of the area you will be in, so you will feel comfortable during your stay. The first time I was in Kiev was a nightmare for me. I did not go more than 500 meters from my hotel, scared to look around. Thinking back, I was a very pathetic man or should I say, child!
I met a woman there a few years back, she was so strong mentally. Her personality was right in your face she was not afraid of anyone. Had her own business, made a good living for her and her son.
She was a beautiful woman, sometimes scared me of how strong she was. I noticed when she talked people listened, she was a master in the market haggling. Ukraine is a country were except the new markets, the price can always be lower. We went to a cafe, she always sat where she wanted even if the table was reserved. I would not call her a bitch just a strong woman. I also saw the kinder side of her. In most cities, there are kids poor kids that sell flowers. Luda would always buy flowers from these kids, but not keep them. She would give them to some older woman and make her day. One day we went to the outdoor market, bought so many fruits, vegetables, bread, and cheese. I said are you planning to have a party today.
She said yes let us go to the park and have a party with my grandparents. What happened next was one of the kindest acts I have seen!
At the park, there are many people. Parks in Ukraine are always kept nice, they have many people with their children. It is a great place to meet women or girls. Luda walks and walks, finally she stops at a bench. An old man was sitting on this bench. Luda said hello to the man, he did not respond to her. Without hesitation, she goes into the bags of food we have. She gets some apples, vegetables, bread, and cheese makes a bag for the man. She hands it to the man; he does not react to her. Finally, he says I do not have money to buy your food.
She says this is a gift for you I am sure you are a nice man!! He now has a big smile and goes through the bag of food.
He makes a sandwich with the bread and cheese, eats so fast while taking bites from a cucumber. Luda and I say goodbye to the man as he is thanking us for the gift. I told Luda what a kind person you are, she said don’t tell anyone with a smile. We continued to walk in the park and give these bags of food to the old people in the park. She told me that the seniors that are alone in the park do not have anyone. So she said I never met my grandparents, so now I have some every time I come to the park. It is such a gratifying feeling directly helping make someone’s life better.
When all the food was gone, we sat and talked, I saw a whole new side of her. I told her you are a great person!
She said I am not so great, I do try to be a good person. I saw tears in her eyes; I knew what she was feeling. I said Luda you are not such a strong person. She said yes I am just because of some fruit. No, because I can feel your hurt I can see it in your eyes. She looked at me as if she was going to hit me or yell at me. Then she started to cry; she said Rod I am tired of being strong! I wish I can find someone to be a weak little girl, I need a man that can be my wall.
I need some to be strong for me I am a woman, I am weak fragile scared, I am a woman!! Where is my man Rod, why can’t I be happy I am so tired of being strong.
here is how some of the women in Kiev are. Tough on the outside, but a scared child that needs to be loved.The good news Luda did find that man he is from Australia. From what she told me he is a real, strong man. She said his hands are so rough, she loves when he holds her so tight. Also, she told me her son now has a man to teach him to be strong too. Living in a new country is hard, but if you have someone that will support you; not so bad. I have not heard from her lately, she has her life. I am so happy for her, she deserves to be happy! If you like this story you might want to Read Paying It Foward!
Like so many other single women and girls in Ukraine. The women in Kiev can seem a bit harsh when you meet them, From what I have seen and ben told. If you can prove your love to one of these strong women, she will love you forever!
Come with me to Ukraine and find your love. Maybe you will have the good fortune of finding true love.