Does age difference matter in Ukraine? I have dated women with a 20-year difference in age. Some might think this is wrong or perverted.

So when movie stars marry with a 20-year difference or a pop star marries a man 30 years older then she it is perverted? Or do we have a double standard for celebrities? It is not uncommon for a 23-year-old girl to marry a 40 years old man in Ukraine. Most women in Ukraine are looking for security, a man that will be loyal and trustworthy. How many young men do you know with these qualities?

In this article, there are some excellent point about Ukraine girls it was written by Marriage Wolrd.com

Should I marry a Ukrainian Woman?

The first thing that you have to understand is that nearly all Ukrainian women want to marry foreign men and move to his homeland. In most cases, they believe of a life outside Ukraine as a more decent one compared to Ukraine. So, the point is not about well-mannered foreign men. Moreover, for some women marrying a foreigner is a simple way to get other country’s citizenship. But in general, most Ukrainian women will only marry a man if they love him.

So why should I marry a Ukrainian woman

– Ukrainian women will want to have children and a family. A Ukrainian lady will want to be a wife and mother. Many will be completely happy in this role alone. Some women will like to work outside the home as well; some will not. By and large, these women know how to be a loyal wife and a good mother. The whole Ukrainian culture teaches that a woman finds her highest fulfillment by being a mother.

– Ukrainian women tend to take care of their appearance and always like to look their best. They dress more femininely than American and European women and love to look stylish, sexy and classy. Skirts, heels, and sexy dresses are the norm. Just spend a few minutes on the streets of Kiev, Odessa, Lviv or Kharkiv, and you’ll see what we mean.

– Ukrainian women are also famous for being excellent housewives, loving mothers, and a great cook. They usually learn from childhood how to cook traditional Ukrainian meals, and they love doing it. Besides, it’s not very common to keep a housemaid in Ukraine. That’s why Ukrainian women are used to doing all housework themselves. These qualities of Ukrainian women are highly valued by men in Ukraine and many other countries. Actually, there are many foreigners who are happy to have a Ukrainian wife, as well as there, are many Ukrainian women who dream of marrying a man from abroad.

– Even Ukrainian men are smart and interesting, but not all Ukrainian men can be good husbands to their wives. The overwhelming majority of Ukrainian women seeking husbands abroad are honest in their intentions. They want to have a reliable partner, happy family, and stable future. They are not going to marry a guy just to divorce him in a couple of years.

– Most Ukrainian women also have a rich intellectual life, well-educated, speak a number of languages than Australian, Mexican, Japanese or American women. If you’re looking for someone to connect with on a deep level and want conversations that consist of more than just “awesome”, “cool” or “like, whatever” then you’ll most likely find Swedish or French women exciting.

Ukrainian women have relationships and marry local men every day. Though, some women, due to reasons of personal nature (involvement in studies or career, high requirements, insecurities, poor communication skills, etc.) are unable to find a man to get married in Ukraine. As they mature, the demographical profile of their age group changes and women outnumber men, making it difficult for single females to find a life partner for a committed relationship.

Ukrainian women decide to join dating agencies only when they have run out of options at home. Very few women ever have a dream, “I only want to marry a foreigner.” They date Ukraine, aren’t successful in finding a lasting relationship that could potentially lead to marriage, and then they look around and try other options, which they believe could give them what they want a loving and caring husband.

After reaching the age of 25-26, a single Ukrainian woman becomes rather desperate to get married. Many young women who hurriedly jumped into marriage at 18-19, get divorced within 1-4 years and often left to bring up a child on their own. Father’s participation in children’s’ upbringing is usually limited to paying alimonies and very rare visits. Sharing custody is a foreign idea for Ukrainians, and children usually live with their mothers. A woman with a child is considered (damaged goods) and has fewer chances of remarrying.

Quotes from the web:

– Men over 40 have a good idea of what Ukrainian women are looking for: commitment and financial stability. While it’s true that there’s an expectation that a man of a certain age be more established (particularly if he’s never been married), it’s better to be upfront and honest about your actual wealth, or lack thereof. Besides, it’s even more significant to be forthright about your feelings on commitment. If you’re still living with your parents and aren’t looking for something serious, then make that clear.Marriage World

I do agree with this article, but it is so hard to convince a western man of this. I have talked with friends about this in Las Vegas, and some are still skeptical. But the guys that have come to Ukraine with me always say the same thing” I can not believe you were telling the truth, Rod.”

They even go on to tell me it was more then what I said it would be. One guy, I did not know very well told me you have to keep these Ukraine girls thing quiet. You don’t want everyone to know about this! It is true the way I do it is not like anyone else. I am your personal date guide in Ukraine. I take you from place to place say a park or historical place, and we meet women and girls. As many as you want and when you find a girl you like I will help you with the cultural differences.

When you tell a Ukraine girl after only a short period of dating, I love you. She might even walk away from you thinking he is not serious.

But if you tell a Ukraine girl she is gorgeous she will eat it up. They love compliments, that is if they are true. All women know when a man is being honest in his compliments. Some American women don’t mind this but a Ukraine women will call you on it if it is a lie so be ready. It is not so difficult to meet a Ukraine girl but to follow the rule or traditions can be sometimes overwhelming. I remember an old friend he was in Ukraine alone and he asked me how to meet and date a girl in Ukraine. Of course, this was while he was in Ukraine so over the phone I coached him if you like to read this story Why Go To Ukraine?

Over the years I have introduced many men to Ukraine the country I love so very much. I found a people that welcome foreigners into their country.

The tough part is to have them welcome you into their lives! I can show you this by being your personal guide, so come with me to Ukraine! It will be a trip you will not forget!

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