Here is what happens on most Ukrainian online dating sites. There are agencies most of the time it is a travel or tour Agency. They hire very sexy girls to be professional daters.

The online dating sites partner up with the agency, they will refer a man that is coming to Ukraine. When he is to meet a woman from a site he has to pay for her private information. It can be from $70 all the way up to $300.

Once he pays for the so-called private phone number, email, and address. Depending on the company one of two things happen.

Either he gets a dummy email and phone number, which is not hers, it is the agencies. Most of the time it is @gmail, so when he sends an email it goes to the agency. This is how everything is controlled. It is not a real date!

 Another scenario, he receives her real phone number and email. He can write her or call her if she speaks English, some women do most do not. Either way, it goes the end result is the same.

The man and an agency decide when and where to meet. Let us say they decide to meet in Kiev, which most do.  No matter what, they will both tell you they need an interpreter. If the woman speaks English, she will tell you I do not know you how can I meet a strange man alone? If you ask her if you can provide an interpreter or ask her to bring a friend she will not meet with you. They will be in complete control every step of the way.

Now, do you see how you are being played? You spent many months communicating with her spent I do not know how much money online.

You are going to spend so much more but your opinion or ideas will not be accepted. I am sure by now she has told you-you are special or she is falling in love with you right? She has feelings for you but does not trust you? Why is this? It is because she is a professional dater, paid a commission to date you.

She signed a contract with the agency, If she decided to see you without an interpreter they will have her arrested for prostitution.

They scare most of these girls to do what they want them to do. You like me, decided to meet her anyway, thinking it is a different culture. And she is a very sexy woman let’s not forget that!

Once you get to Kiev you will be under the control of the interpreter. She will tell you where you will meet when you will meet. Also that you need to bring your date flowers or some gift.

Once you meet, the girl will flirt with you tell you she likes you. Everything you wanted to hear from a girl, but it is just a game. They butter you up, so you will pull out your credit card. If you are as dumb as I was as so many men are. Even though you feel like you are being played, you stay with her. The interpreter will never leave you alone with the woman. You see there are some of these dater women that do not want to play with you, but their hands are tied. I know this to be true. I have slipped two girls my phone number both called me later, explained what happened. They did not know what they were signing up for.

In a few days, you or the girl has had enough. She will end it if you stop buying her things. Most of the men I know end it because they are paying $25 an hour for a fake date.

That is $250 a day not including food, taxi fare, or gifts. I sometimes feel bad for the professional dater some are good women caught up in a scam. Some make a living off dating men through the dating agencies. One I met a few years ago was so dishonest and very greedy. Marta the scammer! She would take your last dollar with a smile on her face.

Online Ukraine dating has evolved again. 

The agency used to have translators that write men all day long. Some of the bigger companies are so good now they use programs to do the translations. So the men are not even communicating with a person but a robot. I am was a member of a few online dating companies if you don’t interact with women it is free. I would say I get between 100 to 200 letters a day on Dream marriage. From girls that have not received a response from me in over 2 years. But they still keep writing why is this? They are not real girls it is a robot program writing these letters. I have noticed that the font is the same the style is the same, the color of the font is always a light blue. It was bad enough having your letter translated by some grandma or a man. Now it is not even a real person writing you, welcome to the future!

So why do some girls do this? She gets to date a foreign man that will take her to nice restaurants, might even buy her some nice clothes.

We, men, are very gullible especially if we have a sexy girl next to us. If you do not want to be scammed, taken advantage of or just made to look foolish. Don’t use these sites it is a business that will not change. Why because there is too much money in it. Most of the girls I have dealt with working as a professional dater did not plan this. It was an opportunity to have a nice man treat them to something they were not accustomed to how could they refuse?

Do not take a chance end up in Ukraine with no one to meet. With us, we will not entice you with fake daters. We will only introduce you to real girls, girls that would like to date a foreign man. Many of these girls are looking for a special man to have a relationship with. You could be that man!