How do the Ukrainian women think about life love relationships? Everyone has an opinion on what women think, right? I am not saying I can read minds only wanting to explain from my experience. Here is a more general perspective on what I feel they think in life, love, and general being.
If you want to believe the internet or most of the hundreds of articles that promote Ukrainian women as money hungry or even worse that they are only about sex tours. Sure it makes good reading, for most who have no life and have to bash others to make themselves feel better. It is odd that the Caribbean and southeast Asia has a transparent view on sex tours to their countries.
I ask anyone that has a poor opinion about Ukraine a simple question, have you been there? I have talked with many men that have been to Ukraine. Men that have been scammed by certain agencies.
I will not dirty anyone here. The funny thing is most of the men that had a bad experience told me they would like to go back again. What is the draw if these men were taken advantage of but want to go back? OK, it is like this. On one of my trips to Amsterdam, I was waiting for a train. It was a little crowded this day.
Later when I was sitting in a cafe I noticed my money was gone. I was told that pickpockets roamed the busy parts of the city. I only lost $100 dollars. The point is do I now think all the Dutch are criminals?
Of course not I love the Dutch people they are great friendly very easy to get along with. So because an agency that is not honest and prays on the tourist from western countries make all Ukraine a bad place? Again no! I am sure from people from America a big reason we have poor thoughts about this place is the cold war days. Russia and Ukraine are very different places I have been to both. Read More
How would you meet a Ukrainian girl? The first step to meet a Ukrainian girl is to go to Ukraine. Not online not through skype and definitely not with an online photoshop photo. There is no secret to meeting these girls, yes you have to follow their customs. Let’s be honest you have no idea how to meet these amazing girls right?
This is not so bad most men I meet with have no idea how to meet a girl any girl. In Ukraine, it is more difficult to meet a girl than it is in the country you are from. There is the language thing also where to go when you get there. Do you go to a cafe or a bar maybe the supermarket? One big question is what type of man are you? Are you outgoing or maybe shy do you see girls as less than you? Many variables to consider when you are looking for a girl.
Another thing is these girls are different from city to city. I have been to many cities in Ukraine. There are big differences from one place to another. For example, the girls in Odessa are very different from the girls in Vinnitsa.
Yet only a few hours away from one another. When I meet with a man I need to get some sense of who he is what he is looking for in a girl. For instance, I would not take an Indian man to say the East of Ukraine. There are certain cities that are more welcome to different types of men. Call it prejudice or just call it what it is a reality!!
One city is different from the rest that is the capital city of Kiev. Many different types of cultures there. Many Armenian and Georgian people in Kiev. Most any type of tourist would be welcome here.
The problem for men wanting to meet girls is it is somewhat more difficult. Kiev is a very fast pace city, most girls do not have time to sit on a long date with a man. The reason is travel, most girls travel by walking, bus, or metro. I have friends that tell me it takes them almost 2 hours to get to work every day. That equals a 14 hour day! I am not saying it can’t be done it can if you know the schedules of the work in Kiev. In smaller city girls have more free time because travel time is shorter.
Now let us talk about how to meet Ukrainian girls. With all the videos, blogs dating sites and scammers who do you listen to?
Do Ukrainian women like to be complimented? If you were to tell a Ukrainian girl something like this. You are the most beautiful girl in the world! She would think for a second then say, Really even more beautiful than Ani Lurak? Who, is one of the most beautiful women in Ukraine. Or she might ask you why do you think so?
If you are lucky enough to meet and date a beautiful Ukrainian girl make sure you do not give her empty compliments. The girls are not silly to believe unfelt words. They are not like many women in the world that love compliments even if they are not true. I once told a girl, Marina, I knew only a few days, you are a girl I could marry. She asked why? I was not expecting this at all. She sat there waited for my answer. I said because you are cute and have a great smile.
Is that all Marina asked? No, I told her you are easy to talk to. As I was about to say more she stopped me. Rod, please do not tell me things you are not sure of.
Also some mornings I am a monster and want to talk with no one. So all that is left is my cute smile she said? I was very embarrassed just wanted to get up and walk away. She saw me turn red I think. She said what are the qualities of a woman you want to marry? I could not think at the moment. I thought… said I have to love her. I need to know she is mine and only mine. I want a woman I can trust build a life with to have a family. Marina said good that is very smart of you. Do you feel this way about me now? I told her I do not know you well enough so I can not say.
She looked as if she wanted to slap me. I said OK OK what I meant to say was you are very sexy and I would like to have sex with you. She had a big smile now.
Rod now that is the truth I do appreciate the truth from a man. Well, you are not having sex with me today, if you keep playing with me you will never have sex with me! Read More
When I am with a younger girl I do not get bad looks from people, friends of my girl do not question her decisions. It is her life to live any way that makes her happy. Now the problem in Ukraine, the economy is not getting any better so young girls are looking for a way out. A mature man can help them to find a better life.
Again there are so many girls looking for a good man some might think there is something wrong with them. Her parents are from a poor family maybe she works 7 days a week to support her family. Maybe she is looking for that right one nice kind man that will make her happy. It is odd to see and feel how the girls compete with one another. In all my years going to Ukraine, I have not seen one fist fight between two men. I have seen several hair pulling fights between two girls. The reason is always the same they want the same man, it is worth fighting for they tell me.
There are not many good men left in their cities, the men that are there most are married. The younger guys are not ready to settle down with one girl.
I was in a larger city a few months ago in the southern part of Ukraine. Not many tourists there. When the girls would hear me speaking English it would bring them towards me. I felt almost famous sometimes. I would be at a cafe and 4 or 5 girls were around me wanting me to speak with them in English. Read More
How can you be sure a Ukrainian girl likes you? Maybe she just wants your money and a good time? There is one way you can be sure a sexy Ukrainian girl likes you. It can be simple as a look or a smile but to truly know she has to do this!
Many men ask me how do you know if a girl like you and is not playing a game with me? There are certain rules let us call them dating rules. All cultures have such rules. I do remember when I was new to the dating culture of Ukraine. I was so frustrated trying to figure out how to meet and or date these beautiful women.
Over time I was able to see how I was so wrong in the first few times I went to Ukraine these girls are different. Most are very honest so honest you will have to have thick skin sometimes.
That is why I prefer to meet in Ukraine with real women. You see her you feel her, it is easy to see if you like her and she likes you. The women I know also prefer this normal way to meet someone. This way either you or she get their feelings hurt. Many Ukrainian girls I know have been played with on the internet dating sites. Some men say he is coming to visit her. She makes plans the woman takes time off from work. She is excited to meet a foreign man, he does not shows up to meet her. Her dream her job and her emotions are crushed. Read More
I have been asked this a few times are Ukrainian women pretty or beautiful?Sexy or cute? What is the difference between Beautiful or Pretty, Sexy or Cute the four types we give women? Then there are those girls that can be two or even three types.
We all have our preferred type of girl that turns us on or puts a smile on our face. And sometimes we see a woman that is all of the above pretty, sexy, beautiful and cute. But most men when we see such a woman, most think she is way out of my league! Here is where most men settle for someone we are just a little attracted to. Now the ladies will be upset with what I say, I know.
Again it goes back to what is natural. Men think with their eyes first or right side of the brain. Women with their left side of the brain which control reason and logic.
We men think when we meet a girl what a sexy body nice face or sexy legs. We do not think if she is smart or is she strong, we are not looking for another man. Women think when they see a man, can he provide for me is he strong will he defend me and care for me! Her first thought is not wow he is so cute. Ok Ok yes American women do because they are not looking for a provider a husband. They look for some cheap sex with a cute guy! Read More
I would like to marry 500 Ukrainian women and or girls this coming year. The laws are different when it comes to marrying these super sexy women. I would be very happy to reach just half of my goal, I know I could make them all happy.
Or at least happier than they have been in some time. But satisfying that many girls would be very time consuming and extremely difficult. I can already imagine all the problems I will face. It would be well worth it for the girls to have a man they could rely on. A man they could give their love and devotion to, in return they would get what most girls dream of.
A big house lost of money a great materialistic life. Who? sorry I am not talking about Ukrainian girls!!
What about the Ukrainian hot sexy models? Are these women real, do they want a simple man to marry? What do these women want look for in a foreign man?
I have met so many of these girls, I find it hard to say what I think about them. First, let me ask you if everyone around you tells you how beautiful sexy great you are you believe it! This is the first problem with these girls. If you were to ask them they would almost all say I am a simple woman. Which is sad because they have no idea what a simple woman in Ukraine is. I am talking about the women that work 12 hour days, the women that get nothing because of their looks or smile.
I was with a girl like this a short time ago Inna. She was amazing tall, sexy, friendly, easy to talk to. She had the biggest confidence!
As we sat one day and talked about life. I realized how different she was from a simple woman. I asked her what she was looking for in a man to marry. She said the simple things he does not have to be handsome or rich. Then went on to tell me she just needs a good man and through time she would be able to fall in love with him. I asked her how many men she has dated? She told me maybe 5 this year alone.
I asked did you find that good man? No, she said I am looking for a special man for the rest of my life. So is she looking for a special or simple good man?
Dating Rusian women is the same as dating Ukrainian women? Is the dating culture the same in both countries? Are Ukrainian women as materialistic as Russian?
I have dated both Ukrainian and Russian women in Ukraine. I have also dated a few Russian women in the USA. I have noticed the same thing both here and in Ukraine about Russian women. They are like most women in America, they want stuff. Not love but stuff, clothes, shoes, expensive perfume, and anything with value. Russia went through a really bad time years ago the economy crashed. When it recovered it recovered well, Russia was now a materialistic country. Where most have a decent way of life. Similar to the western world.
The average monthly salary is $591 in Russia in Ukraine it is $262. Russia has a greater disposable income. So they became like all other countries that want stuff.
In Ukraine, they are not materialistic why? Because they have not been spoiled in their lives. They do not make enough to buy things like perfume or clothes. I once dated a woman in Lugansk, she was very cute and sweet. The first day I met her she was wearing a sexy dress very tight to her body. On the third date she wore the same dress, I asked if it was her favorite dress? She said it is my only nice dress, the other two I have my mom made for me. I felt very bad for asking now knowing she did not have money for clothes. The next day I took her to a mall to do some shopping. She did not ask me for this.
When I told her she could get some clothes for herself. She looked at me with sad eyes and said I do not need clothing, I don’t want you to buy me things, Rod.
She said I have a good life I do not need clothes to make me happy I need a man to help take care of me. I have dated many girls that say the same thing. They do not want anything from me. I have also brought two women to live with me in Las Vegas from Ukraine. I had no problem with either wanting me to buy them expensive things. Sure they needed the basic thing women need shampoo, cosmetics, also some clothes. But not expensive things.
I date a few Russian women in Ukraine in Odessa to be exact. I met these two women at a cafe very sexy girls. Also very friendly not like most women when you meet them in that part of the world.
We talked and drank wine for several hours, one of the girls told us she wanted to leave. The other stayed with me at the cafe. A few minutes later she came close to me and said if you buy me something I will have sex with you! That caught me way off guard. So me being me I said OK wait here a few minutes I will be right back.
What would be the perfect date with a Ukrainian woman? What would she look like how would she smell? The best is how would she look at you?
Before you have the perfect date you need one thing, that is a Ukrainian woman! How do you go about doing this on your own? Most men are told go online to a dating site to meet the love of your life. Really, what ridiculous advice this is. Let me ask you how did you meet your last girlfriend? Was it online? If so did you chat only online until you met some five months later? Or was it a girl that was introduced to you or maybe you met her at work! These are all very good common places to meet your future woman.
So why do you think only in Ukraine and Russia do you have to meet her online? Is it the cultural problems maybe the language barrier?
Why are so many men tricked into believing the only way to meet Slavic women are through an online dating site? I read there are 85,000 British men that go to Ukraine every year, but only a few thousand marriages. Why is this? Because most men have no idea how to date a Ukrainian woman. Yes, all these sites promise you will meet many beautiful women right?
Do any tell you the chances that you will date even one woman? No, they are not in the matchmaking business they are in the online dating business.
Which means they make their money from memberships or translation fees. I have noticed over the years all of the bigger companies have changed their names from marriage sites to online dating sites. They do not care if you find your love, they probably hope you never go to Ukraine so you will just stay a member for years to come.
This is where Personal Date Guide is different as you can read in the name we are a dating guide. Not an online dating site, we are a site seeing tour but instead of seeing the tourist sites.
We show you how to meet and date the most beautiful women! Over the years I was one of those men that had no idea how to date a Ukrainian woman. I use many different online sites I met many women but dated few. Until I went out there on my own. I learned from my Ukrainian friends how to date women. It was not so easy at first, but over the years I learned. Book a tour with me I will show you how to do this.
We do not expect anyone to go there by themselves without any knowledge of what they will find. It is very difficult to meet and date one of these women if you do not know the dating rules.