What does sex mean in Ukraine? Is sex a forbidden topic when you meet a sexy Ukrainian girl? Could a man have a conversation about sex with girls in public? Is sex with Ukrainian girls better or worse than in other countries? What are the chances of a foreign man having sex with girls without knowing the customs?
Here are some of the questions I have been asked by potential clients. I could be upset that this is what they are looking for in Ukraine but it is natural. To ignore these questions would be very hypocritical I think. OK, first I would like to talk about professional girls or prostitutes. Being from Las Vegas I myself have become used to knowing about this lifestyle. Sex is everywhere in Vegas.
In Ukraine, it is not in your face as they say. The most you will see is strip club billboards on the highways. For a city as big as Kiev there are not many clubs like this.
There was a brothel on a riverboat but I understand it was closed a few years ago. I have met with men that ask me why are there so many sexy women in Kiev. Dressing in a short skirt very high heels skin showing all over the city, but no prostitutes? I do not know the answer to this, maybe it is not needed?
I have had a chance to talk with girls and women about sex in Ukraine. Most of the time it is in a group of more than 2 girls. The conversation usually goes like this.
Most girls think real life in America is like movies or TV. It is very eye-opening for me to know that sex or talking about sex is not that big of a deal there. I remember one group of girls they were from age 25 to 30 I would say. Once the conversation switched to talking about sex it was a long afternoon. There was no talking about the act itself but a lot about the process leading up to the act.
They were so curious to know if most American girls were willing to have sex with a man they just met. In so many TV shows it is shown to be like this.
After a few hours of talking, I realized sex is natural and not at all forbidden to speak about it in cretin company. I asked the girls would you go to a man’s apartment after you just met him. All said no they would not! One girl asked me if I were married or had a girlfriend? I answered no I am single. Read More
Do Ukrainian women like to be complimented? If you were to tell a Ukrainian girl something like this. You are the most beautiful girl in the world! She would think for a second then say, Really even more beautiful than Ani Lurak? Who, is one of the most beautiful women in Ukraine. Or she might ask you why do you think so?
If you are lucky enough to meet and date a beautiful Ukrainian girl make sure you do not give her empty compliments. The girls are not silly to believe unfelt words. They are not like many women in the world that love compliments even if they are not true. I once told a girl, Marina, I knew only a few days, you are a girl I could marry. She asked why? I was not expecting this at all. She sat there waited for my answer. I said because you are cute and have a great smile.
Is that all Marina asked? No, I told her you are easy to talk to. As I was about to say more she stopped me. Rod, please do not tell me things you are not sure of.
Also some mornings I am a monster and want to talk with no one. So all that is left is my cute smile she said? I was very embarrassed just wanted to get up and walk away. She saw me turn red I think. She said what are the qualities of a woman you want to marry? I could not think at the moment. I thought… said I have to love her. I need to know she is mine and only mine. I want a woman I can trust build a life with to have a family. Marina said good that is very smart of you. Do you feel this way about me now? I told her I do not know you well enough so I can not say.
She looked as if she wanted to slap me. I said OK OK what I meant to say was you are very sexy and I would like to have sex with you. She had a big smile now.
Rod now that is the truth I do appreciate the truth from a man. Well, you are not having sex with me today, if you keep playing with me you will never have sex with me! Read More
Here is what happens on most Ukrainian online dating sites. There are agencies most of the time it is a travel or tour Agency. They hire very sexy girls to be professional daters.
The online dating sites partner up with the agency, they will refer a man that is coming to Ukraine. When he is to meet a woman from a site he has to pay for her private information. It can be from $70 all the way up to $300.
Once he pays for the so-called private phone number, email, and address. Depending on the company one of two things happen.
Either he gets a dummy email and phone number, which is not hers, it is the agencies. Most of the time it is @gmail, so when he sends an email it goes to the agency. This is how everything is controlled. It is not a real date!
Another scenario, he receives her real phone number and email. He can write her or call her if she speaks English, some women do most do not. Either way, it goes the end result is the same.
The man and an agency decide when and where to meet. Let us say they decide to meet in Kiev, which most do. No matter what, they will both tell you they need an interpreter. If the woman speaks English, she will tell you I do not know you how can I meet a strange man alone? Read More
Do the Ukrainian women speak English or French or maybe German? How easy is it to meet a Ukrainian girl if she does not speak English? Are there many women that speak English? Are the Ukrainian women familiar with English or other foreign languages?
I remember the first time I went to Ukraine so unprepared so nieve about a country that has many great things about it. I did not even know how to say simple hello or goodbye. Now my Russian is better but not the best, I started to learn it but found I did not need it. Yes, more and more people are learning English now. It is not required in schools. From what I see and hear more of the younger people are speaking English nowadays.
If I have a problem and need someone to help me translate, I turn to the teenagers or even kids as young as 10 years old.
Most of the kids speak English I have found. It is a little rude to ask do you speak English! I have learned if you at least try to speak their language, it will get you a long way with the people. Ask in Russian or Ukrainian a question more likely than not you will find someone who can help you.
Years back when I would go to Mexico two to three times a year I took a friend with me, Steve. Steve was no ladies man he always seemed to get himself in trouble by saying or doing the wrong thing.
One morning I was sitting on the beach with some friends, Steve walks up followed by this beautiful Mexican girl. I ask him what did he do this time, he said I did not do anything I wanted to introduce you to Berta! She was very cute, I then find out she does not speak even a little English. Steve only knows hello and goodbye in Spanish, so how did these two meet? He told me they met in the lobby of the hotel we were staying. It was a few years ago so all they had to communicate was a paperback translation book.
I did not think it would last between these two, but day after day they were together. I saw a side of Steve come out that was weird, he was actually happy.
So now I am thinking like so many do she must want money or a visa from him. He was 15 years older than her. Steve and I had a talk about his new friend I tried to be as careful as I could. I asked if he thought she really liked him? He said I think so today I will meet her mom and dad. He asked if I wanted to come with my friend, sure we will go with you. They are having a party at the hotel it starts at 7 pm. When we arrived it was a very big party many people it looked very expensive. Read More
Why date a Ukrainian woman is it worth the money? Is it easy to marry a Ukrainian girl and bring her to your country? Do the women of Ukraine make good wives and mothers?
If I have not been to Ukraine so many times in my life I would be telling a different story now. The first time I was in Ukraine was one of the worst times but also the best time I have had in my life. If I only knew some of the dating cultures back then. But here is the problem no many people can teach you the dating culture of Ukraine. If you ask the women in Ukraine they will not tell you because they think it is the same as in America or the western world. I had to learn this on my own!
I think back it took me three years to learn how to date these women. Sure I knew how to meet women but had no idea how to date them.
Everyone has their own opinion about how to date Ukrainian women. Now if you are from Ukraine you know how to date women from your country. If you are not and maybe from America, there will be some confusion when and what to do. Can you walk up to a woman in the street and talk with her? No, and yes, there is a way to talk to a woman in the street but most of the time they have no time to sit and talk with you.
I remember a time when I walked up to a beautiful woman in the street, she was waiting for a bus. As soon as I walked over to her she held up her hand in my face.
Of course, I did not know what to do and was very embarrassed. A few days later I saw the same women in a cafe with her friends. I decided why not see if she will hold her hand up to my face again. I walked over to her table asked if she remembered me she said yes I do. I am sorry for the other day but I was very busy and you can’t talk with people in the street. She asked if I would like to join them for a drink? I was a little confused about what just happened. She explained to me why she did this, said I did not want to talk with you then. But now I am relaxed with my friends and we can get to know one another! This would never happen in America.
Even to this day, it is hard for me to forget I am in a foreign country and the rules are different. I date a girl from China for a few months talk about culture shock.
One evening we were going to a show in Las Vegas it was so crowded people everywhere it was hard to walk. We were bumping into everyone, I kept excusing myself for bumping people. My girl asked why do you say sorry all the time I said it is proper. She said in China we do not do this there are so many people that bumping into them is constant. So if we were to say sorry every time we would not get anywhere. When I think about it in Ukraine they do no say sorry for this either, unless it is for an older person. Read More
Are these women the most beautiful in the world? Why are the Ukrainian girls so beautiful or is it not true? The most important question, how to date a beautiful Ukrainian woman?
I have been going to Ukraine for over eight years now, does Ukraine have the most beautiful women in the world? No, I do not think so! I am not trying to be a pessimist to challenge all the sites who write about this. I have been to many countries, also to many cities in the USA. In my opinion, the women from the USA are the most beautiful. If you read the articles online most say Ukraine or Sweden are the best. Here is an independent view was written by Rudy Owens.
First, I do not ascribe to the idea of “national beauty” or the national ranking systems that have little scientific validity. Social and popular media are obsessed with the idea that Swedish women are among the world’s most beautiful. A dubious online source called Traveller’s Digest claims Sweden tops their list of countries with the hottest looking women. (The country’s men also rank No. 1). Such rankings amount to Internet silliness.
I traveled to Sweden in 1990 for about a week, staying with friends I met in India (Eva and Eva — yes the real names). I found many people I met there to be healthy and attractive, but not to an extreme. I did find an excessive amount of out of control binge drinking in the social circles my generous hosts ran with, particularly among college-age and slightly older Swedes. In fact, globally, I have found few places that matched the excessive drinking I saw all over Sweden.
I also have seen Swedes globally, and in general many do appear more fit and healthier than the typical American, who rightly has earned a reputation as being overweight and thus unhealthy, and therefore unattractive in the eyes of many. Such data is borne out by national health statistics, as America is the fattest country on the planet, and because of that, my country does not have the reputation as Sweden does for the hottest men and hottest women, I think.
Globally, Sweden does very well in terms of health rankings and public health investments. Sweden scores highly in terms of life expectancy from birth, ranking No. 16 among all countries (81.8 years). Its Nordic neighbor, Norway, ranks 25th (80.32 years). The United States fares worse Read More
If you meet a girl through online dating how do you know she is real? Most Ukrainian women I know are honest have good morals. So why so many online scams? Meet your future bride online who is behind the photo?
I can tell you 90% of the time it is someone being paid to write you back. If I brought you to Ukraine introduce you to a sexy girl then tell you it is a 90% chance this girl is a scam? Would you want to date her? No, we are much smarter than that so we think. So why do we believe these online dating sites? OK, they do serve a purpose I have always said, for lonely men that have no desire to come to Ukraine. They are great entertainment. I know I use to use them and be fooled all the time by pretty girls photos.
This is an email I received a few days ago. By a guy looking for a new love in Ukraine. Only to be scammed like so many, you might think he is not so smart. But he is thinking with his heart, not his mind.
titled: Your wisdom is needed.
I would appreciate the opinion of someone who is so familiar with Ukrainian women. I am seeking a wife from the Ukraine for the second time. When I did this the first time 22 years ago I was in my mid-thirties. Back then I used a magazine I found online called Scanna and wrote mailed letters. I went to the Ukraine three times and eventually married Nataliya, a girl raised in a small town and who lived in Eastern Ukraine when we married. It was much simpler then!
After 20 years of marriage, we are separated and getting a divorce. I really appreciated some of the qualities of my ex, so once again I am looking for a woman from the Ukraine. I tried several dating sites, and as you know most are just expensive scams. The best one I could find is a site called Go Date Now. Compared to the others it was the cheapest with a wide selection of women. Initially, I was only looking for women over 45, and I communicated with three of them for quite some time. During this time I was getting over 50 letters a day from women mostly in their early 20’s, I would briefly read the letters and dismiss them because of references to sex and the woman’s age, I just took these women as not being serious or working for the site.
However, one letter I got didn’t refer to sex or other sensationalism, just a very pleasant letter from a 31-year-old woman telling me about the difficulties of being a single mother of two young girls in Kiev. Initially, my intention was to help her with her very bad profile that said she didn’t want any “cowards” in her life. However, I have ended up communicating with this woman for over eight months now and we have exchanged a few hundred messages. She sends me five messages a day sometimes. We have video chatted twice, and I know she is the girl in the profile. Over the last eight months, I have become very infatuated with her, but I have also have concerns over the age difference of 25 years. Read More