The online dating site is big business in all parts of the world. I still have a problem with the idea of how someone can date another online! Is dating when two people meet then enjoy getting to know one another?
What should it be called? Looking at girls photos because you are afraid to act in real life?
I was a fool for quite a few years doing also this but I never thought I was dating any of the girls online I felt it was more of a way to find Ukrainian women that would want to meet me in person. Then if we liked one another we would date each other. I have been traveling most of my life. I have been to many states of the USA also Mexico and Canada. I have dated in many different cities, a few girls from Mexico only one when I was in Canada. When I would travel to Europe I dated a few women there too. A Belgium girl two girls in Amsterdam.
I am not trying to say I am some kind of ladies man only a guy that is a nice guy and most women appreciate this all except American women.
I have played with a few different online sites from Philippine to Russian to Chinese. I came to notice Ukrainian women on a few sites. At the time the Ukraine women were not popular at all over the years the online dating changed. It went from the companies being legitimate and the girls being the scammers. So now everyone is looking to scam all men from the girls to the online site and the dating agencies in Ukraine.
This is how it looks to me with the online sites oh by the way Facebook will not let some online dating agencies advertise there. Finally, someone is looking out for the desperate lonely people.
Online dating is a virtual strip club except for a few vital differences. You can not smell the sweet perfume girls wear. You don’t get to watch her sexy dance or let her whisper sweet lies in your ear. Also, you do not come home with all that stripper glitter, who doesn’t like stripper glitter? After you leave this type of club you feel foolish a bit, but you also have some good stories to tell your friends. You spent a few hundred dollars and everything goes back to normal.
With the online dating sites, they trick you trap you with lies! Lies that we stupid men no are lies but ignore. Plus we can do it from the privacy of our homes. Nobody will know you are in love with a virtual girlfriend.
I myself was caught up in this ridiculous scam for a few months. What helped me realize it was all a scam I saved all the letters the video chats anything that this girl sent me. One day I read over everything and nothing matched. I would be very specific in what I would ask her, she would almost never respond to my letters in a direct way. Every letter I reread was the same she did not respond in a normal way. It was just a template letter. For instance Hi Rod, I have been so busy but I am always thinking about you. Read More
If you meet a girl through online dating how do you know she is real? Most Ukrainian women I know are honest have good morals. So why so many online scams? Meet your future bride online who is behind the photo?
I can tell you 90% of the time it is someone being paid to write you back. If I brought you to Ukraine to introduce you to a sexy girl then tell you it is a 90% chance this girl is a scam? Would you want to date her? No, we are much smarter than that so we think. So why do we believe these online dating sites? OK, they do serve a purpose I have always said, for lonely men that have no desire to come to Ukraine. They are great entertainment. I know I use to use them and be fooled all the time by pretty girls photos.
This is an email I received a few days ago. By a guy looking for a new love in Ukraine. Only to be scammed like so many, you might think he is not so smart. But he is thinking with his heart, not his mind.
titled: Your wisdom is needed.
I would appreciate the opinion of someone who is so familiar with Ukrainian women. I am seeking a wife from Ukraine for the second time. When I did this the first time 22 years ago I was in my mid-thirties. Back then I used a magazine I found online called Scanna and wrote mailed letters. I went to Ukraine three times and eventually married Nataliya, a girl raised in a small town and who lived in Eastern Ukraine when we married. It was much simpler then!
After 20 years of marriage, we are separated and getting a divorce. I really appreciated some of the qualities of my ex, so once again I am looking for a woman from Ukraine. I tried several dating sites, and as you know most are just expensive scams. The best one I could find is a site called Go Date Now. Compared to the others it was the cheapest with a wide selection of women. Initially, I was only looking for women over 45, and I communicated with three of them for quite some time. During this time I was getting over 50 letters a day from women mostly in their early 20’s, I would briefly read the letters and dismiss them because of references to sex and the woman’s age, I just took these women as not being serious or working for the site.
However, one letter I got didn’t refer to sex or other sensationalism, just a very pleasant letter from a 31-year-old woman telling me about the difficulties of being a single mother of two young girls in Kiev. Initially, my intention was to help her with her very bad profile that said she didn’t want any “cowards” in her life. However, I have ended up communicating with this woman for over eight months now and we have exchanged a few hundred messages. She sends me five messages a day sometimes. We have video chatted twice, and I know she is the girl in the profile. Over the last eight months, I have become very infatuated with her, but I have also had concerns over the age difference of 25 years. Read More