The best dating advice for men is dating advice from men! This was the day I learned I was doing everything wrong. When it came to dating Ukraine girls, but I learned the Ukraine dating secrets!!

I now have a great understanding of these women. What to expect in certain situations, and when to hold my hands up and surrender. I am not saying some professional date counselor. I am a man that knows the customs and what to say and what not to say to the native women of Ukraine.

On my fourth trip, I went to a place that the internet said was one of the best places to meet single Ukraine girls. When I arrived, it was empty except for the staff and a few guys smoking hookah. I tried to ask one of the servers why there was nobody there. But she did not speak English, a man came over and asked if he could help me. I explained what I wanted to know why no people? He said two reasons the Maidan shooting was only a few weeks ago and it is Tuesday night.

The Maidan shooting was terrible a government gunned down its people with snipers just innocent everyday people.

Igor said why are you here just after the shooting are you crazy. I told him I made plans to come here some months ago, I did not want to change them. He told me a few stories and said now it is all calm you have nothing to worry about now. We talked a little, and then he left but gave me his phone number. In case I want to go to dinner later that week with him.

I called Igor a few days later and we met at the same place.

I was not thinking this night would help me more than any book or video on Dating Ukraine girls. 

When we arrived, it was very crowded. We first went to smoke hookah I am not a fan of this, but I was his guest. We sat at a table with this big couch, within a few minutes two girls asked if they could join us. Igor said, of course, they sat and ask Igor his name. One girl asked me where are you from? I told her Las Vegas, they asked me so many questions.

I ask Igor how did this happen so fast? He told me girls like foreigners, and you are with a local, so you are safe.

So now I am learning some things, he also told me if a girl looks at you she is welcoming you to approach her. If a girl smiles at you it is polite that you to talk to her. We sat with the girls for an hour or so, then Igor said let’s go upstairs. I asked if we should ask the girl to come with us? He said why do you like them? I answered yes they are very cute girls, why just leave them? Nope leave them here! Are you kidding me leave them here, I was so lost. I ask what was wrong with those girls. Igor said they are not right for us, we will have much more choices upstairs. We get upstairs, and it is like a lounge music but not too loud and maybe 100 girls. So he said who do you want to talk to? I looked around and said those three very pretty girls in short skirts.

He said no Rod those are easy girls, girls that want money for sex. I ask how do you know; he said in most places like nightclubs or lounges there is a line in the room. One side easy girls the other good girls.

I said how can you tell? He said what do you see on this side of the room? I said, a lot of pretty girls and what on the other side? I said, again a lot of pretty girls there is no difference they all dressed very sexy! He said there is a big difference if you look past the pretty girls.

After I learned the difference I was shocked, how could I not have seen this! The hair on my arms rose and I got a chill.

I said Igor this is real this is true. He said see for your self, so we walked up to the easy girl’s side. I asked do you girls want to have some fun? They said sure what do we get? Then I walk to the other side of the club, and I asked the same question. The girl said can you buy us a drink and we will see if we can trust you guys.

Now I have a few secrets or should I say understanding of how to date a Ukraine girl. Any club I go to I instantly know. It is different than here in the USA!

Igor also told me some of the things you can say to a woman and a few never to say. I did meet a lot of girls that night!  But I was finding out the girls were not my type, sure they were fun and nice to be with. I was looking for more of a serious relationship. Most girls would date me only for a short time, I did not know how to keep them around. I now needed to know how to date a woman, how to make her interested in me. It took me some time but I learned the secret to this too.

Thinking back, I have realized I met the woman of my dreams three times. But did not know how to keep her interested or should I say to fall for me?

The first was this so so cute girl Dasha. She was very soft spoken and very curious about me, I found out. We dated for a few days and it was great I got to know a lot about her. My problem was, as a good friend of mine told me, Do not treat these women like American women. I was treating her like an American woman, in other words, I was holding on to my emotions. I tried to make my life seem more important to her. I bragged to her about how great my life was, what a great job I had. I remember one afternoon, we were sitting at a cafe. Dasha ask,

Rod if you have such a good life what are you doing in Ukraine looking for a wife? At the time I felt hurt by her words, how could she ask me this?

If I had only been myself and spoke the truth maybe we would still be together! Now I felt offended, my attitude to her changed. Dasha called me on my lies or should I say exaggerations. In Ukraine, you must speak the truth because someone will always call you on it. The women are not afraid to question a man. it is not like here in America.

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